Social distancing is one thing, but we can’t abandon our communities over coronavirus
When social distancing was first suggested as a means of reducing the spread of the new coronavirus, several of my friends joked how great it is to have public health experts affirm their anti-social tendencies.
We now have a legitimate medical excuse to avoid playdates, parties and large crowds — all right!
Even for the socially challenged among us, canceling public events, restricting travel, and moving college classes online all seem like extreme measures, but the experiences of other nations prove that limiting social contact can be extremely effective, especially early on.
According to recent analysis of the coronavirus pandemic, a “25% reduction in contacts yields more than 50% drop in cases after one month.”
In a word, that is huge.
If we can “flatten the curve” or slow the incidence of infection, especially serious cases, we are less likely to overtax our healthcare system, which should lower the mortality rate from the illness, as well.
All of this is good, and we should do it, full stop.
But we have to be aware of the cost of isolation — and I’m not talking about the economic impact, the pricey stimulus packages, or the plunging stock market.
I’m talking about the damage that occurs when communities disintegrate.
Americans already are a uniquely isolated people.
Twenty years ago, sociologist Robert Putnam blamed that on technology and its atomizing effects on society in his seminal book, “Bowling Alone.”
In the ensuing years, social media, video games and streaming services have made everything much worse.
People are spending increasingly less time interacting with neighbors and friends and engaging in their communities, and more and more time alone.
That’s had a devastating impact on our social institutions.
It’s also been deeply detrimental to our personal and public health. Lonelier people get sicker, stay sicker and die sooner.
Still, you’d think that our cultural penchant for reclusiveness would serve us well in acute situations, like the current pandemic.
As it relates to our personal desire to sit at home with a book instead of attending a concert — yes.
But it ultimately means that in times of crisis, when communities should be coming together to serve the common good and our mutual survival, we are finding ourselves alone.
We don’t trust the institutions that govern us, the ones we rely on for support, and we see each other as competitors in a zero sum game.
That is even more destructive than a virus.
Two short weeks ago, a friend commented that if a family in our circle found themselves ill or short on supplies, the rest of us would happily pitch in to help, even if that meant sacrificing for our own families. (Yes, even toilet paper!)
“We have a village,” she said.
But not everybody does.
Yes, it’s hard to build community when you’re self-quarantining.
It’s certainly not the ideal time to get involved in your church or start volunteering at the local food bank.
But it is definitely time to turn our attentions to those around us.
That means checking in on relatives and friends. Making sure our neighbors, especially those in vulnerable populations, have what they need.
That might mean sharing or rationing our own supplies (I’m talking about you, toilet-paper hoarders) or finding ways to support healthcare workers. We might seek ways to support families without childcare.
Those of us able to use the extra time with our kids should do it profitably — less TV, more books and games.
None of this will be easy, and it will require some creativity.
But it can be done.
We will ride this out. And it will be a lot easier to rebuild our communities if we never abandon them in the first place.
