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What toys should parents buy for infants, school-age children? These guides help

The Center for Transforming Lives Arlington Child Development Center provides childcare in a March 28, 2025 archive photo.
The Center for Transforming Lives Arlington Child Development Center provides childcare in a March 28, 2025 archive photo. amccoy@star-telegram.com

Parents are faced with several options when considering children’s toys for birthdays, holidays or day-to-day play. Child development experts have insights on which ones are most appropriate for different ages.

In general, experts recommend hands-on, sensory-rich toys that can be used in multiple ways. The kinds of toys that are provided to children matter, as 90% of brain development happens by age 5. This period of rapid development sets the foundation for a child’s education, health and quality of life as they grow older. Coral Care, a pediatric therapy services platform, provides a guide to parents to help choose toys that are developmentally appropriate for children from infant age to early school age.

Jen Wirt, CEO and founder of Coral Care, noted how some toys can continue to be utilized as children grow older, such as kitchen sets. She gave an example of a child pulling apart a velcro pizza and reassembling it at an earlier age but then creating a menu for an Italian restaurant when they’re older.

“With these toys, it’s just a really great way to know that you’re investing in your child’s development through play, but it also helps to give you a better window into where they’re struggling, where things feel a little bit harder,” Wirt said, adding that they can give parents insight into whether their child might be delayed in meeting certain milestones.

Carolyn Perry, assistant professor and director of clinical education for the Department of Speech Language Pathology at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center, said developmental skills that can be cultivated through toys include fine motor skills, gross motor skills, postural or perceptual skills, speech language development skills and sensory skills

Sometimes people can get hung up on high-tech, flashy toys, but it’s important to remember that “anything can be a game,” she said.

“I mean, blowing bubbles — I can make blowing bubbles last for 20 minutes with a kid. Turning a pot upside down and making different drum rhythms,” Perry said as examples. “It doesn’t take the big, fancy, flashy, expensive toys with batteries to get a good game going.”

Perry also recommended guides for age-appropriate toys and games from the American Red Cross and the National Association for the Education of Young Children.

Here’s what parents could consider when deciding which toys are best for their children, according to Coral Care:

Newborns to 12 months

This stage of development is defined by movement, repetition and sensory experiences. Look for toys that support tummy time, grasping and visual engagement.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • High-contrast books and cards
  • Tummy-time mirrors
  • Rattles and grasping toys

Links to toys:

12 months to 24 months

This stage of development includes climbing, imitating and banging. Look for toys that support emerging speech, gross motor strength and cognitive development.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • Push toys and walkers
  • Simple shape sorters
  • Toy kitchens and food sets

Links to toys:

Age 2

This stage of development is underscored by exploration, movement and curiosity. Look for toys that facilitate early problem-solving, emotional regulation and expressive language.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • Simple ride-on toys
  • Easy inset puzzles
  • Play tunnels

Links to toys:

Age 3

This stage of development focuses on storytelling and pretend play. Look for toys that support social skills, sequencing and fine motor control.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • Dress-up outfits
  • Playsets
  • Art supplies

Links to toys:

Age 4

This stage of development involves collaborative play and building more complex ideas. Look for toys that improve executive function, attention and early math concepts.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • Magnetic tiles
  • Play-Doh and tools
  • Beginner STEM kits

Links to toys:

Age 5

This stage of development includes deeper creativity and structured play. Look for toys that facilitate social reasoning, early literacy skills and emotional regulation.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • Craft kits
  • Cooperative board games
  • Building sets with steps

Links to toys:

Ages 6-8

This age range includes higher abstract thinking and longer periods of engagement. Look for toys that help build perseverance, social development and planning skills.

Examples of recommended toys are:

  • STEM and engineering kits
  • Sports equipment
  • Creative writing or storytelling tools

Links to toys:

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Lina Ruiz
Fort Worth Star-Telegram
Lina Ruiz covers early childhood education in Tarrant County and North Texas for the Fort Worth Star-Telegram. A University of Florida graduate, she previously wrote about local government in South Florida for TCPalm and Treasure Coast Newspapers.
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